What Does
Family Violence Involve?
Learn the true definition. Be prepared. Help break the cycle of abuse.
Any act that causes harm or threatens the risk of harm to a child (under 18) by a parent, caregiver or another person. While all types of abuse and neglect can occur, the four common types of child abuse are physical abuse, sexual abuse, emotional abuse and neglect.
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Protecting children from abuse and neglect is a community responsibility. Most adults want to help but are unsure of how to get involved. If you think a child is being abused or neglected, you should report it as soon as you become aware of it.
Signs of child abuse or neglect may vary based on the type. Here are some common signs:
Unexplained injuries, such as bruises
Extreme behaviors, such as excessive crying, truancy or running away
Poor hygiene and unsuitable clothing
Excessive fear of parent(s), caregiver(s) or going home
Depression or excessive crying
Poor peer relationships or inability to relate to children of the same age
Sudden change in behavior
Constant hunger, tiredness or lack of energy
Attention-seeking behaviors
Any act that causes harm or threatens the risk of harm to a teen by an individual who is in a current or former dating relationship with that teen. Teen dating abuse may be physical, sexual, financial, verbal or emotional in nature. While abuse often occurs as a pattern of controlling behavior, a single episode of abuse is cause for concern.
It is important for parent(s) to know whom your teens are dating and to talk with them about healthy relationships. Keep in mind that some teens may mistake attention as expressions of love when in fact they are warning signs of control.
Signs that a teen may be a victim of an abusive relationship:
Giving up things that are important
Isolation from friends
Changes in appearance, weight, grades or behavior
Unexplainable injuries
Fear of making partner angry
Preoccupied with pleasing partner
Apologizes for partner’s behavior
Excuses to questions about the relationship
When an abusive family member or partner causes harm or threatens the risk of harm to an individual with whom they are in a trusted relationship. Domestic violence may be physical, sexual, financial, verbal or emotional in nature. While abuse often occurs as a pattern of controlling behavior, a single episode of abuse is cause for concern.
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If you or someone you know is being abused by a partner or family member, it is important to get help safely. If a victim chooses to leave an abusive relationship, for various reasons, it may take multiple attempts to leave. Providing non-judgmental support is critical.
Signs to be aware of if you suspect someone is being abused:
Physical injuries such as broken bones or unexplained bruising
Claims of being “clumsy” or “accident prone”
Frequent absenteeism or tardiness
Isolation
Harassing phone calls, text messages, emails or notes on cars
Comments about stress at home
Talking about the spouse or partner’s anger or temper
Leaving work early or coming in late
Making mistakes on the job
Abuse occurs in all types of relationships and among people with varying backgrounds of age, race, religion, financial status, sexual orientation and education. Elder abuse is any act that causes harm or threatens the risk of harm to a person 60 years of age or older. Elder abuse may be physical, sexual, financial, verbal or emotional in nature and may also include neglect or exploitation.
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The signs that elder abuse may be occurring include the following:
Unexplained signs of injury
Untreated physical problems such as bed sores
Behavior from the elder that mimics dementia such as rocking, sucking or mumbling to oneself
Broken bones, sprains or dislocations
Caregiver’s refusal to allow you to see the elder alone
Torn, stained or bloody underclothing
Unusual weight loss, malnutrition or dehydration
Unsanitary living conditions such as dirt, bugs, soiled bedding and clothes
Get Answers
In difficult circumstances, some of the most frequently asked questions and answers may help.
The “Where’s The Line?” campaign is a first-of-its-kind effort designed to increase awareness of family violence and to change the behaviors of individuals who may be witnessing such acts. For the purpose of the campaign, we refer to these individuals as “bystanders.”
Bystanders are three times more likely to intervene after seeing a bystander campaign. The Center for Family Safety and Healing (TCFSH) created “Where’s The Line?” to offer resources that can educate the general public, answer questions and triage requests to appropriate services.
The main objective of the campaign is to give bystanders in central Ohio a resource to safely and appropriately help victims.
“By focusing on the bystander and empowering people to be able to recognize all forms of family violence, we hope to encourage reporting.“
– Abigail S. Wexner, Founder & Board Chair, TCFSH
Bystanders say that they are not getting involved for fear of being wrong. We say make the call and risk being right.
Child Abuse and Neglect
Any act that causes harm or threatens the risk of harm to a child (under 18) by a parent, caregiver or another person. While all types of abuse and neglect can occur, the four common types of child abuse are physical abuse, sexual abuse, emotional abuse and neglect.
Teen Dating Abuse
Any act that causes harm or threatens the risk of harm to a teen by an individual who is in a current or former dating relationship with that teen. Teen dating abuse may be physical, sexual, financial, verbal or emotional in nature. While abuse often occurs as a pattern of controlling behavior, a single episode of abuse is cause for concern.
Domestic Abuse
When an abusive family member or partner causes harm or threatens the risk of harm to an individual with whom they are in a trusted relationship. Domestic violence may be physical, sexual, financial, verbal or emotional in nature. While abuse often occurs as a pattern of controlling behavior, a single episode of abuse is cause for concern.
Elder Abuse
Abuse occurs in all types of relationships and among people with varying backgrounds of age, race, religion, financial status, sexual orientation and education. Elder abuse is any act that causes harm or threatens the risk of harm to a person 60 years of age or older. Elder abuse may be physical, sexual, financial, verbal or emotional in nature and may also include neglect or exploitation.
There are some common signs that abuse may be occurring. Click below for information on the signs of abuse:
Signs of child abuse or neglect may vary based on the type. Here are some common signs:
Unexplained injuries, such as bruises
Extreme behaviors, such as excessive crying, truancy or running away
Poor hygiene and unsuitable clothing
Excessive fear of parent(s), caregiver(s) or going home
Depression or excessive crying
Poor peer relationships or inability to relate to children of the same age
Sudden change in behavior
Constant hunger, tiredness or lack of energy
Attention-seeking behaviors
Signs that a teen may be a victim of an abusive relationship:
Giving up things that are important
Isolation from friends
Changes in appearance, weight, grades or behavior
Unexplainable injuries
Fear of making partner angry
Preoccupied with pleasing partner
Apologizes for partner’s behavior
Excuses to questions about the relationship
Signs to be aware of if you suspect someone is being abused:
Physical injuries such as broken bones or unexplained bruising
Claims of being “clumsy” or “accident prone”
Frequent absenteeism or tardiness
Isolation
Harassing phone calls, text messages, emails or notes on cars
Comments about stress at home
Talking about the spouse or partner’s anger or temper
Leaving work early or coming in late
Making mistakes on the job
The signs that elder abuse may be occurring include the following:
Unexplained signs of injury
Untreated physical problems such as bed sores
Behavior from the elder that mimics dementia such as rocking, sucking or mumbling to oneself
Broken bones, sprains or dislocations
Caregiver’s refusal to allow you to see the elder alone
Torn, stained or bloody underclothing
Unusual weight loss, malnutrition or dehydration
Unsanitary living conditions such as dirt, bugs, soiled bedding and clothes
If an individual believes that they are witnessing an act of family violence and they have questions, they are encouraged to call, text or send an instant message for answers and advice that can help.
The resource line should not replace calling 911 in case of an emergency or any other 24-hour emergency crisis hotline.
- The person can expect to receive information on family violence, appropriate referrals and tools to become a more informed bystander.
Many victims avoid using the criminal justice system when experiencing family violence, for valid reasons. Because of this, a community response is necessary. Below are three common concerns that prevent bystanders from responding and several ways the campaign addresses those concerns.
Fear (What if they come after me?)
I worry that the abuser may find out if I call and come after my loved ones or me.
I also worry that things might get worse if I call and stir things up.
You should be aware that calls, texts and instant messages are confidential sources of support.
Uncertainty (What if I am wrong?)
I’m not confident that what I’m seeing is family violence.
I worry about what might happen if I’m wrong.
I’m not sure where to turn for advice.
Become aware and familiar with the signs of family violence.
You should feel encouraged to call and ask questions.
Privacy (Is this any of my business?)
I recognize that something is going on that looks like family violence. However, I don’t want to be dragged into someone else’s drama.
I think someone else will take care of it.
What happens in someone’s home is none of my business.
Become knowledgeable about the impact you can make! Your call, text or message can really make a difference.
All calls, texts and instant messages are anonymous and confidential. The caller is greeted and asked how they could be helped. Texts and instant messages will be answered as they are received and are provided the link to our website for further information.
If the caller discloses there is immediate danger, the call will be transferred to 911. All efforts are made to provide the caller with the best response and appropriate resource.
- The person is asked for at least their zip code, but sharing information is completely optional. All calls, texts and instant messages are anonymous and confidential.
The Information Coordinator (IC) at The Center for Family Safety and Healing manages the calls, texts and instant messages.
The IC uses reliable information tools and resources to help inform and to safely report or provide information to those in need.
- By telephone 844-234-LINE (5463)
- By texting 87028
- By instant message at wherestheline.info
These options are available Monday through Friday between
10AM and 6PM
Education and prevention are important steps to help break the cycle of family violence in the community. The Center for Family Safety and Healing offers educational trainings on how to recognize signs, how to respond appropriately and how to refer to community resources that can assist.
Trainings can be customized for schools, colleges/universities, faith-based organizations, healthcare systems, employers, legal systems, service providers and other audiences.
The Center for Family Safety and Healing is a private non-profit that fully addresses all aspects of family violence, including child abuse and neglect, teen dating abuse, domestic violence and elder abuse. For more information about The Center for Family Safety and Healing, visit or connect with us at:
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Million Children nationally are affected by abuse each year
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Children Die Every Day in the U.S. due to Neglect and Abuse
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It only takes ONE decision to help a victim
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Percent of U.S. Teens have been a victim of abuse by a dating partner
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Our anonymous chat will connect you with the Information Coordinator to get specific advice.
Resources
Additional community resources, services, and information.
Training
Learn how to recognize, respond and refer. Together, we can end family violence.
Educational trainings are available to learn how to recognize signs of family violence, how to respond appropriately and how to refer to community resources that can assist. Trainings can be customized for schools, colleges/universities, faith-based organizations, healthcare systems, employers, legal systems, service providers and other audiences.
Videos
From the “Where’s The Line?” Campaign
Watch and share with others. Together, we can break the cycle of abuse.
Helping Teens Navigate Relationships and Technology During COVID-19 02/11/2021
The continual uncertainty and stress caused by COVID-19 is impacting families in many ways. Social distancing can be especially challenging for teenagers, who may feel isolated from classmates, friends and romantic partners. We know that teens used […]
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Human Trafficking: Understanding the Red Flags 01/12/2021
As a parent, you do everything you can to protect your children. From making them eat their veggies to monitoring their online activity, you want to help them to grow up healthy and safe. One […]
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Keeping Your Family Safety After An Abusive Relationship 01/04/2021
Coercive control is a form of abuse that perpetrators use against their children after their ex-partner has separated from them. Coercive control can include violence, threats, intimidation, stalking, monitoring, emotional abuse and manipulation, interwoven with periods of seemingly caring and generous behavior as part of the overall abuse.
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Setting Healthy Boundaries During the Holiday Season 11/12/2020
Holidays may look different for many of us because of COVID-19. There may also be heightened tension because of election results or conflicting political views amongst family members.
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